WELCOME TO
THE INNER CIRCLES
You are invited...
Founding Members Opening
The Inner Circles are currently welcoming their first founding members.
This means you’ll be part of the small group of women who shape the culture, depth, and energy of the space from the very beginning.
Founding members receive lifetime founding pricing and close proximity as the circles grow.
You don’t need to keep trying to figure this out alone.
You don’t need more information.
You don’t need another podcast telling you to “just love yourself more.”
And you don’t need to keep white-knuckling your way through confusing situationships and commitment-avoidant men.
What you actually need…
is someone steady in your corner while you navigate dating, relationships, and your own patterns in real time.
Someone to say:
Pause. Don’t text that.
Here’s what this behaviour actually means.
You’re abandoning yourself right now. Come back.
You deserve more than this.
Because when you’re in it, you can’t always see clearly.
And that’s where everything spirals.
Overthinking.
People pleasing.
Overgiving.
Settling.
Situationships.
Confusing mixed signals.
Chasing someone who isn’t choosing you.
Not because you’re not worthy.
But because no one ever taught you how to trust yourself, regulate your nervous system, set standards, and move through relationships from self-leadership instead of anxiety.
That’s what these spaces are for.
These are intimate mentorship containers where you receive direct, personalised support from Dee — so you stop doing this alone.
If you’re ready to feel grounded, discerning, self-led, and deeply chosen…
You’re in the right place.
Choose your level of support below.
Which will you choose?
Both circles offer ongoing guidance and mentorship — the difference is simply the level of proximity and personal support you receive. Most women start inside the Chosen Circle and upgrade later when they want deeper support.
$129 USD / month
Steady guidance + weekday support
Perfect for you if you want consistent mentorship and someone in your corner while you navigate dating and relationships — without needing private sessions.
Inside the Chosen Circle, you receive:
• Private messaging support during business hours (Monday–Friday)
• Thoughtful replies to questions, situations, and reflections as they arise
• Ongoing personalised support from Dee
• Nervous system regulation tools and breathwork practices
Bring the messy middle.
Bring the confusing texts.
Bring the “am I overthinking this?” moments.
Bring the people-pleasing, the overgiving, the second-guessing.
This is where we start to unpack the layers that got you here. We begin to understand the patterns and the cycles. And guess what? You're no longer doing it alone, wondering why this keeps happening to you.
You don’t have to figure it out alone anymore.
You'll start to move through dating feeling grounded instead of anxious.
Supported instead of alone.
Chosen instead of chasing.
You can upgrade to Queen’s Circle anytime if you decide you want deeper support.
$288 USD / month
⭐ Most Transformational
Private mentorship + priority access
For the women who are done.
Done with situationships.
Done with breadcrumbs.
Done repeating the same patterns.
Done shrinking themselves just to be chosen.
If you’re ready for deeper mentorship, private sessions, and closer support — this space is designed for you.
Inside the Queen’s Circle, you receive:
• One 60-minute private Deep Dive session each month
• Priority messaging access with same-day replies during business hours
• Ongoing direct support from Dee
• Nervous system regulation and trauma-informed breathwork integrated into your work together
• Bonus resources and trainings
• Exclusive member rates on additional 1:1 sessions
• Priority booking and early access to new programs and events
The full monthly mentorship is less than the cost of a single standalone session with Dee — while giving you support all month long.
This is where we slow down and go deep.
Attachment patterns.
Childhood conditioning.
People-pleasing.
Inner child work.
Breaking cycles for good.
Not to become someone else’s queen.
But to become sovereign within yourself.
And from that place — everything changes.
Please note: Very limited places available each month due to the private session component.
Inside both circles, our work may include:
• decoding mixed signals and confusing behaviour
• understanding text messages and dating dynamics
• breaking chasing or anxious patterns
• setting boundaries without guilt
• strengthening discernment and standards
• exploring attachment styles
• unpacking childhood and relational conditioning
• reparenting and inner child healing
• nervous system regulation
• building deep self-trust
• learning how to feel chosen — without forcing anything
This is about becoming the woman who no longer has to convince anyone to stay.
Because she knows her worth.
And she doesn’t settle for less.
The work of becoming chosen starts with choosing yourself.
Choose Your Level of Support
Who These Circles Are For
These circles are for women who are ready to approach relationships with honesty, curiousity, and personal responsibility.
You might find this space supportive if you:
• keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners and don't know how to break the cycle
• struggle to walk away even when you know you should
• overthink texts, signals, and mixed messages
• want to strengthen boundaries and discernment
• want grounded support while navigating dating or relationships
You don’t need to be perfect.
You simply need to be willing to look honestly at your patterns and grow from there.
This space may not be for you if:
• you’re looking for someone to tell you what to do
• you’re unwilling to look honestly at your patterns
• you want quick fixes rather than real change
About Dee
My Story...
This work isn’t something I studied first. It’s something I lived.
I didn’t grow up with healthy models of love or communication. Home felt unpredictable, emotionally unsafe, and often chaotic — and without realising it, that became my blueprint for relationships.
For years, I repeated the same patterns without any idea I had anything to do with it at all.
I chased emotionally unavailable men.
I confused anxiety for chemistry.
I overgave and people-pleased my way through relationships that left me exhausted.
I shrank myself to be “easy to love.”
I stayed when I should have walked away.
And every time something fell apart, I assumed it must have been me.
I genuinely didn’t know another way.
So, I started doing the work.
Therapy.
Study.
Psychology.
Coaching.
Healing.
Learning how my nervous system actually worked.
Learning how trauma shapes attachment.
Learning how to regulate myself instead of abandoning myself.
It wasn’t a quick fix.
It was years of slowly coming home to myself and a heap of failed relationships.
But somewhere along the way, everything shifted.
I stopped chasing.
I started trusting myself.
My standards rose.
My body felt safer.
Dating stopped feeling like survival.
I didn’t become “perfect.”
I chose myself. I learned how to embody queen energy.
And that changed everything.
Now, alongside my lived experience, I bring formal training in psychology, counselling, coaching, and trauma-informed breathwork — using nervous system regulation as a practical tool to help you feel grounded and clear in real time.
In this membership, we don’t just talk about change, I teach you how to embody it.
Because this isn’t theory for me.
I know what it feels like to overthink every text.
To wait anxiously for the next ding only to see that it’s not from him.
To question your worth.
To feel addicted to someone who isn’t choosing you.
To wonder why you keep repeating the same story.
To play through every scenario on repeat attempting to soothe yourself.
To make endless excuses for shitty behaviour, and to become accustomed to less than the bare minimum.
And I also know what it feels like to finally break that cycle.
That’s why I do this. So you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
Don't worry, we got you. Here are some answers for your questions.
Is this therapy?
Yes and no. Mostly no.
While Dee uses a lot of therapeutic skills when working with clients, this is not a substitute for traditional therapy, this is mentorship and coaching.
Dee has formal training in psychology, counselling, and trauma-informed breathwork, but these spaces are designed for guidance, reflection, and personal growth — not clinical therapy or crisis support.
If you’re looking for therapeutic work, private sessions with Dee are available separately outside the membership and can be done alongside it. In some cases, Dee may recommend working with a more specialised practitioner to ensure you receive the right level of care.
What’s the difference between the two circles?
Chosen Circle offers steady weekday messaging support and ongoing guidance.
Queen’s Circle includes everything in Chosen, plus a monthly private Deep Dive session, priority replies, closer proximity to Dee, and more.
If you’re wanting light-touch support and someone in your corner, Chosen is perfect.
If you’re ready for deeper, high-touch mentorship and more personalised time together, Queen’s is the better fit.
I’m not dating right now. Can I still join?
Yes. Absolutely yes.
While many women join for dating support, this work is really about self-trust, boundaries, attachment patterns, and how you show up in relationships. You can work on yourself without a man.
Whether you’re dating, healing from a breakup, already in a relationship, or simply focusing on yourself — you’ll still benefit deeply.
How quickly will you reply to messages?
Dee replies during business hours.
Chosen Circle members receive thoughtful replies during the week.
Queen’s Circle members receive priority, typically same-day replies.
This keeps the space supportive while also protecting healthy boundaries and sustainability. The more Dee takes care of herself, the more capacity she has to fully support you.
You’ll never be left hanging — but this isn’t an emergency or crisis service.
Is messaging support unlimited?
Messaging support is designed to help you navigate situations, questions, and reflections as they arise — not as a continuous conversation thread throughout the day.
Dee replies thoughtfully during business hours so you receive grounded guidance rather than rushed responses.
Is breathwork included?
Yes.
Dee integrates trauma-informed breathwork and nervous system regulation tools naturally into your support whenever helpful. These practices are woven into the work rather than delivered as separate classes.
What if I want extra 1:1 support?
Queen’s Circle members receive exclusive member rates for additional private sessions and priority booking.
Chosen Circle members are always welcome to book standalone sessions separately if they’d like deeper support, or can upgrade their membership at any time.
I’m male-identifying. Can I join?
These memberships are designed specifically for female-identifying individuals.
However, Dee does offer private mentorship for men on a case-by-case basis. You’re welcome to apply to work together and book a discovery call to explore your needs individually.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes.
There are no lock-ins or contracts.
Stay for as long as it feels supportive.
Leave when you’re ready.
Simple.
How do I know which circle is right for me?
If you already know you want close proximity, private sessions, and deeper support, Queen’s Circle is likely the best fit.
If you prefer lighter weekday guidance and ongoing messaging support, Chosen Circle may feel perfect.
Don't see your question answered? Still unsure of the right fit for you?
Book a 20-minute discovery call with Dee to find out.
Follow the link and complete the Work With Me application form, then select 20-minute discovery call in the multiple-choice section.